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As a white adoptive mother of a Black child and a psychologist, I am grateful for Drs. Harrison and D’Angelo’s thoughtful and nuanced work. This book is a valuable resource, offering insights both historical and personal. The friendship between the two authors and their candor regarding race, racism and raising children provides a model for the kinds of conversations and introspection each and every one of us should be engaged in as we strive to dismantle racism, be better ancestors and protect and nurture Black children.

LVC

An extraordinary and in-depth perspective from loving parents and scholars. This book very much comes from the perspective of the boots on the ground and explored the relationships between love, race and culture. I HIGHLY recommend this book. Five stars for sure!

Rocky B

This is a well-researched IMPORTANT book written for white parents of children of color but applicable to all parents of all children. Doctors Harrison and D'Angelo tackle this subject from different perspectives giving their subject clarity and authenticity.

tomPSU69

The way the book is structured, D’Angelo and Harrison make you feel as though you are with two friends having a down to earth discussion - part history lesson, reality check and real life guide. It is straight to the point(s) with heartfelt stories to clarify. The book details the importance of learning about and embracing diversity and the impact (and responsibility) we all have as a community in raising children - really powerful. I had lots of emotions and thoughts from reading. A question that stands out throughout the book and challenges the reader - is what will the reader commit to for change and growth? Something I will continue to think about. Well done!

MSJ

I finished Do Right By Me in two days. I loved everything about it. From the individual yet complementary insights and your alternating view points, to the quotes beginning at each chapter, to the ability to break down the historical, institutional, multi-layers of racism. Yes, the book was born of Gabriel but also of a deep friendship of two people who did and do the work to understand one another and with an unwavering, mutual desire to treat everyone with the dignity they deserve. The book was pointed and poignant. It should be required reading for every person who impacts the life of a Black child -- parents, educators, law enforcers - everyone. It also gave me a richer understanding of our communal responsibility, the richness of Black pride and making people around you better. 

AH

Do Right by Me: Learning to Raise Black Children in White Spaces offers essential, authentic guidance to non-Black parents and caregivers raising Black children through transracial adoption or in multi-racial homes. Crucially, it emphasizes the importance of promoting a strong, positive identity based on a healthy understanding of African history, culture, art, body image and spirituality. The ethnically diverse authors were friends and colleagues at Temple University long before D'Angelo and her husband, a white couple, adopted Gabriel, a biracial baby. The profound joys of parenthood didn't prevent D'Angelo from grasping a devastating truth: "Our world does not give our son the privilege of acting like us, and moreover, it places on him the burden of managing how others feel about him."
Presented as an informative dialogue between friends, Do Right by Me confronts unreformed education, healthcare and judicial systems that prevent Black children from being judged solely on their merits, and offers bold strategies for overcoming the inherent disadvantages these systems perpetuate. In the context of education, "doing right" means that parents and caregivers must actively work to ensure each Black child receives the benefits expected by their white peers, and that schools affirmatively commit to fostering well-being for Black students. As Harrison says, "passive education environments equalize nothing for Black children." While tailored to parents and caregivers, Do Right by Me is an authentic, valuable resource for any reader prepared to serve as a critical ally to Black children and their families.

At heart, Do Right By Me: Learning to Raise Black Children in White Spaces is about walking in someone else’s shoes...It’s like listening in on a thought-provoking, fearlessly honest conversation between good friends. Organized in alternating passages, thumbnail caricatures by Susan Jarvis Ragland provide a visual cue to who’s speaking at any point. Writing with passion and humor, D’Angelo and Harrison use recognizable milestones—choosing a pediatrician, evaluating a preschool, corresponding with the principal, attending a classmate’s birthday party—to open discussions incorporating psychology, history, culture, and racism.

Pamela J. Forsythe, writer and review for Broad Street Review